: first time ruined? whats going on?

You need more , dont just jump right into . , even though you guys say your ready and want to do it, isnt planned. In this situation, your guy really needs to put more effort into getting you worked up before you have . Example, finger you, and well, go down on you really. From my experience, nothing gets a girl more worked up than that. By that time, you fluids should be giving u all the lube u need!